I realize that a bunch of the girls will want to defend this one (may be) but I would like to lay the cards on the table from my point of view. Talking with a friend of mine the other day I was saying how I miss having a girl around in my life. How they really makes you put things in a different perspective and all. I went as far as to tell him that even with all my friends around I really miss the girls I used to hang out with as things were just different with them. It’s not like I was going out with any of these girls. They were all my friends, but yet it’s always different than hanging out with the guys.

Now here’s the problem having girls as friends. Well it’s not a major problem really. It’s not like we stop being friends or anything, but yet it’s there; lurking in the background waiting to happen. I don’t know about others but with me and girls it all starts with talking and they we start hanging out and having fun. And then all of a sudden you have more and more options of hanging out and having fun. And things are kept crystal clear that the freindship is just great and no one is really hitting on the other. But then the inevitable happens. No matter their age and the level of the friendship it happens.

They get hooked. Which by itself is not the problem, but it’s just that getting hooked has inevitable circumstances. They have to give more time to that significant other. And may be it’s just my luck and now that couple doesn’t want to really hang out with this poor single bastard. Now, I’m sure it isn’t like it for all but it is with the most I have know. They just disappear – slowly but surely. What starts with just reduced talking time ends up becoming a thing in the past. It’s weird, really. I mean it’s not like I was trying to get them away from their boys, but yet it’s almost like that. Whatever happened to those fun conversations?